What if I don't like my coach?

coaching Apr 04, 2022
 

Video transcript:

When you’re getting into a professional relationship
with a coach one thing you might be wondering
what if I just don’t like them?
What if I don’t get on with them?
And that’s an interesting question
because if coaching isn’t working for you
then you will tend to focus on things
like that. The coach has some irritating habits…
I’m not quite sure if this is the right coach for me…
When coaching is working really well that’s 
probably the last thing you think about
because the focus is on you
what you want to talk about.
The values you’re working on,
the changes you’re putting into place,
and reflecting on those changes
and making sense of them.
So if liking your coach is an issue for the 
coach you currently have then it’s probably worth
reflecting on the whole coaching process
and whether it’s working for you.
If you’re worried about liking the coach before
taking the coach on, don’t worry about that
because a good coach, no matter how
weird and wonderful their style might
appear at the beginning, you’ll be totally
focused on you and what you’re trying to achieve
and all of that kind of noise will tend to drop
into the background and you’ll ignore it
if the coaching is working for you.
So don’t worry it you like your coach or not
before you’ve employed them to work for you.
If you’re wondering about that kind of thing
when you’re actually working with a coach then
probably the whole coaching relationship
is probably not working for you and it might be 
worth looking at an alternative coach.
I hope that helps.
Let me know what you think
in the comments below and I look forward to 
hearing what those comments might be

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